A Step-by-Step Information & Resource Guide for Parents, Families, Allies, Faith Communities and Caring Adults
The TransTruth Ally Guide is a comprehensive, compassionate and practical resource for anyone who wants to better understand and support transgender, non-binary and gender-diverse children and young people.
This 86-page digital guide offers gender-affirming, neuro-affirming and faith-sensitive guidance. It is especially helpful for parents and family members who may feel uncertain, overwhelmed or unfamiliar with gender diversity but want to respond with love, dignity and care.
Inside the guide
Clear explanations of gender identity, gender expression, gender dysphoria and gender nonconformity
Practical ways to support a transgender or gender-diverse child
Guidance on names, pronouns, clothing, privacy and social transition
Behaviors that may cause harm—even when harm is not intended
Understanding the relationship between neurodiversity and gender diversity
Support for parents as they process their own emotions, fears and expectations
Faith-sensitive reflections for Christian parents, families and communities
An affirming exploration of Scripture, theology and commonly debated Bible passages
Balanced information about social and medical transition
Information about conversion practices and attempts to change a person’s identity
A glossary of helpful LGBTQ+ and gender-diversity terms
Practical questions to help you ask a child what support looks like for them
A simple ally checklist
An extensive collection of books, organizations, videos, articles and South African support resources
A practical, neuro-affirming addendum on changing a forename and gender marker through the South African Department of Home Affairs
This guide does not tell families that there is only one correct pathway. Every transgender and gender-diverse person is unique. The goal is to help families create enough safety, openness and support for a child or young person to be heard, respected and cared for.
You do not need to understand everything immediately. You can begin by listening, learning and allowing love to become practical.
Digital product: PDF download
Length: 86 pages
Created by: Eunoia Consulting | Glimmers, Spins & Stims
This guide is intended for general information, psychoeducation and support. It does not replace individualised medical, psychological, legal, theological or crisis-intervention advice.
